Passionate About Your Journey, Your Life, Who You Are, What You Are, Where Your Going

ashli smiling and laughing as a baby

We all go through those challenging times in life where we lose focus, don't know our purpose, why was I created, what does God have in mind for me.

Trust me I know I've had plenty of those times. I grew up a spoiled only child but I grew up feeling ashamed of that because people around me didn't want to see me prosper. They felt like because I was the light skin pretty one I grow to be bigger than them. Growing up feeling low of myself was hard because I didn't believe in me. I didn't believe I deserved anything. People around me mad me feel so ashamed to be light skin that everything I wanted to do I felt just on.

I remember growing up saying I wanted to be a lawyer or either work in healthcare. But my true passion was dancing and singing. For a long time that's all I did was dance and sing but I felt embarrassed to do it around certain people because I didn't feel good enough.(Some days I wish I would have stuck with it.) I didn't feel good enough because I was always the butt of someones joke or I was always talked about and not because I couldn't sing or dance but because I was just simply me.

My cousins and I enjoying each other

So over the year I had a tough time believing in myself believing that I can do anything I wanted to do or be anything I wanted to be.

I cried and weathered so many storms with myself letting and allowing people to treat me any kind of way, man to treat me any kind of way. I started seeking therapy and one day in my late 20's I just finally screamed and cried so loud. I was home alone my son was at school and I just screamed to the top of my lungs and let out a hard cry. From that day forward I promised myself to get better with me. It took some time but I'm finally at a place where I'm happy with who I am.

Passionate About Your Journey

Have some faith in who are. Trust that you will find your purpose and you we hold on to God every step of the way.

Your Life

This is your life you only have one life so live it up. Don't worry about what others think you should do with your life because they don't have to live it. This is about you and your success.

Who You Are

Figure out who you. Find out what you love most about you. Learn to love who you are. Don't look for others to help you love yourself because your never going to love them correctly. Everything will become toxic if you don't find the strength to find out who you are first. Sometimes you can do it while being with other people and sometimes you can't. But do the work to love who you are.

What Your Are

What you are as a person; reflects what your going to make up of yourself as person. How you treat people is a strong reflection of you. Treat people with kindness but don't let no one walk all over you.

Where Your Going

Find out what your goals are. What you are passionate about. Your success depends on you.